I have a friend that is recovering from an eating disorder. She wanted control in her life, so she stopped eating appropriate portions- because she could control what she eats. It hurt me to see her get skinnier and skinnier. However, she is doing SO much better. I would hate the media to have this affect on other people, to make them quit eating so that they can become model skinny. However, I also know people that are morbidly obese. Should these people be encouraged, potentially by the media to lose weight and feel better about themselves? I guess the main point is, the desire to work out and be strong should come from a desire to be healthy. We need to be proud of our bodies, as long as we are doing what is required to be healthy. If you are eating poorly consistently and not having any form of exercise in your life... of course you're going to feel badly about your body and maybe that self-conscientiousness is exactly what is necessary to motivate you to change.
All bodies are temples of God and deserve respect by others and by yourself. They should not be objectified, but the Lord has asked us to obey the word of wisdom (in my opinion you aren't obeying this law if you're obese or anorexic) and to take care of this precious gift.
What is your goal to take care of this gift?
I love your emphasis on focusing on the word of wisdom as opposed to looking thinner, more muscular, curvier, etc. My goal to take care of my body is to control my sweets intake a little better. Not to stop eating them, because I have THE biggest sweet tooth, but just to control it better :)
ReplyDeleteI really like that you added respecting our bodies to the discussion. I decided the same thing myself recently. I have been wanting to find a way to love my body more, since I often don't (as I am sure is not uncommon). I decided that, rather than focusing on being skinny, I should focus on respecting my body and giving it the proper food and exercise it needs, and seeing where it takes me.
ReplyDeleteSo true! I love your thoughts on the importance of being healthy and helping people to love themselves and the body they have been given. Thanks for your thoughts!
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